Richard

Ex-RAF Senior Aircraftsmen and resident Richard Means signed up when he was 17 years old in 1972.

Richard worked as a Safety Equipment Fitter and ensured that parachutes were packed correctly. He loved his time in the RAF. His younger sister Pauline told us that “he liked the camaraderie – he was one of the chaps”.

In 1979, Richard decided he was ready to marry, at which point the RAF helped him to re-train to become a bricklayer. Seven years later, Richard was involved in a car accident due to a drunk driver. Whilst he had no outward signs of injury, it became apparent in the following months that Richard had acquired a brain injury which affected his speech, swallowing, memory, and mobility. After undergoing assessments in three different hospitals, it was decided that there was nothing that could be done to help Richard further.

At the age of just 31, Richard’s life had changed forever.

Initially, Richard was placed in a Care Home for young people. When Richard’s niece joined Care for Veterans fundraising team in 2008, his family came to realise that Care for Veterans might be a more suitable permanent home. Richard has now been living at Care for Veterans for over 14 years. When he first arrived, he was suffering from poor mental health, which meant he wasn’t keen on socialising or leaving his room. Fortunately, the plethora of activities and diversity of residents coaxed Richard out of his shell and in no time, he began to make the most of what Care for Veterans can offer.

Rehabilitation Assistant Lisa said, “Richard is well known for his cheekiness, and you can’t help but love it – his laughter and personality are addictive! Richard enjoys doing puzzles, quizzes, crosswords and playing dominoes. He takes part in cooking club too. Recently, we helped Richard make an email account so he has the option to email his brother. Richard enjoys social events, including concerts. He is a very sociable man with a great sense of humour. Without these activities, Richard would be very isolated and become very low.”

Richard’s more urgent care needs are seen to by our expert in-house team. Due to a condition called ‘dsyphagia’, which involves trouble swallowing, Richard receives assessments and modifications from our Speech and Language Therapist Yasmine for eating and drinking.  Yasmine said, “my work with Richard ensures his safety when swallowing and maintains his quality of life around eating and drinking”.

With Care for Veterans, Richard has been able to attend a Buckingham Palace Garden Party, Rugby matches in Twickenham and has been accompanied to the Cenotaph in Whitehall, London, for the Remembrance Parade.

Richard’s sister Pauline shared, “The team there are absolutely wonderful. Care for Veterans is the best place Richard could have gone to”.